Marriage

Marriage is an important institution in the Bible, and several key passages address it. Marriage, as a sacred covenant, reflects the unbreakable bond between God and His people, emphasizing the importance of lifelong commitment and faithfulness. It serves as a means for procreation, companionship, and sanctification, enabling couples to participate in God's creative work, support each other emotionally and spiritually, and grow together in Christ-like virtues.

In ancient Israel, marriages were usually arranged by parents, who prioritized compatibility and the ability to establish a strong family unit. One example of this is found in the story of Abraham sending his servant to find a wife for Isaac (Genesis 24).

Betrothal, a legally binding agreement, preceded the actual marriage. The couple was considered legally bound to each other but did not live together or consummate the relationship during the betrothal period (Deuteronomy 22:23-24). If either party wanted to break the betrothal, a formal divorce was required.

As part of the betrothal and marriage process, the groom's family paid a bridal price (mohar) to the bride's family, symbolizing the value of the bride and her family's loss (Genesis 29:18-20).

A written marriage contract (ketubah) outlined the rights and responsibilities of both parties. The contract specified the bridal price, the financial support the husband would provide to his wife, and any provisions for the wife in case of divorce or the husband's death.

The wedding celebration included a festive feast and various ceremonies (Genesis 29:22, Judges 14:10).  These celebrations often lasted several days and were attended by friends and family. The marriage was considered complete after the couple consummated their union, often in a specially prepared room (Genesis 29:23). The consummation solidified the marital bond and signified the beginning of their life together as husband and wife.